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Transitions in marriage

         Last week, we discussed the fundamental steps to take to prepare for a happy marriage. We pointed out how critical it was to establish the right dating pattern to deal with couple challenges when they arrive.  In today's article, we will focus more on some of the transitions families go through during their marital Longlife experiences and the types of behavior couples need to adopt to avoid marriage friction.       Whenever I search the meaning of the word Transition on Wikipedia, it amazes me to see how this word, no matter its context,  describes the act of leaving a place, a state of mind, or even a device that I will call A to upgrade to something more refined, more ennobling and more fulfilling that I will call B. In other words, it is the process or a period of changing from one state or condition to another. Although this seems to be a good thing to do, the process is not of small effort. the act of transiting comes with a lot of discovery and research, a lot of tr

Preparing for Marriage

      Marriage, this simple but powerful word over centuries has been used in various times and settings we can think of to express the love and the biding of a man and a woman in this mortal life. Although this definition, today in our modern time, has been twisted to take a suitable meaning to human ears, we should nevertheless remember that marriage between a man and woman has been ordained of God and is the channel through which Heavenly Father sends his spirit children to experience mortality and go back to him. Because it is something of much importance, God has provided a way for marriages to last forever through the power of the priesthood authority. In the scriptures, we learn that God married Adam and Even and everything that is done by the power of God is to last forever. That's why members of the church of Jesus Christ believed that marriage can last for time and eternity. but before we go too far away from our topic let us come back to what we will be talking about tod

Gender and family life.

               It is a pleasure to write to you once more about a family-related subject you may or may not have encountered during your life. The title of this article throws some little tips on what we will talk about.               Gender and family life have always been at the center of human lives. Everything we do and become is shaped by how we have been trained in our families. In last week's article, we were able to explain that every family has its own rules, and those rules after constant repetitions become family culture. In connection to that, gender and family life explores how gender, sexuality, and, kinship relations shape individuals' experiences.           Before diving into exploring this week's topic, it is important to define the differences observed between females and males to know how family influence can affect the gender and the personality of people. Although exceptions apply to both genders, the male gender is more likely a provider. he is natural

Family Culture.

           One Year ago, I made a constatation of how frequent it was getting to see many of the people I knew, who were joyfully married getting divorced. It also appeared to me that what seemed to be inconceivable in the minds of many for decades, because of frequency has started to become accepted as reasonable and a normal thing to do.  As such, getting divorced is no more something society wants to avoid or prevent by helping the couple who is struggling with a family relationship but it has become part of life.  Although having this blog set was part of a school assignment, what made me excited was the fact of contributing to reteaching the family values that the world is losing. That's why this blog focuses so much on the family because I want the readers to make wise family decisions and to be informed about how to start developing the right family culture that leads to Happiness and peace.            Family culture as mentioned above according to Wikipedia is "an aggr

Different families theories

                    According to the online dictionary definition, a theory is  a supposition or a system of ideas intended to explain something, especially one based on general principles independent of the thing to be explained. it gathers sometimes many facts to help us understand or even get closer to understanding why things are and how they are. A theory looks for answers and is an essential approach when we want to advance in our part with the surety of making the right choices in the world we live in.  Seeing that it is important to make theories before taking decisions, let us consider the implementation of the act in our quest of establishing a good family.                When it comes to family, a theory is made out of the interrelatedness of factors, including the influence of one member's behavior upon another. It also takes into count the family system individuals live in and the impact of the trends we talked about in the previous article on their environment. With t